So you’ve made it through a year of breastfeeding and are now into what is considered “extended breastfeeding” territory – congratulations! The World Health Organisation recommends breastfeeding until at least the age of two, and while it has huge health benefits for both mum and baby, there’s no denying that breastfeeding a toddler is a much different experience to the newborn days.
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Extended breastfeeding into the toddler years can present many new challenges, changes, and comical moments. Here are just a few things you may learn…
Any position goes
Ahh remember the days when you could cradle your newborn in your arms for a long and peaceful feed? Now they’re kicking their legs in the air and doing gymnastics, all while attached to your nipple. We’re not exaggerating when we say any position goes.
They can be a lot more demanding when they want a feed
Gone are the days of cute rooting in and nuzzling for a feed, my son has taken to coming over and trying to pull my top down when he wants some milk. Funny, yes, but not so good when you’re trying not to flash your boobs in the middle of Costa.
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They may have funny nicknames for breastfeeding
Boobies, bitty or as my son likes to say “nom nom”, your little one may end up with their own funny name for breastfeeding, and they won’t shy away from using it.
It offers special moments to connect (and relax)
Breastfeeding a toddler isn’t all about nutrition, but also a great way to reconnect and comfort them, whether it’s a way to spend some time together after a busy day at work and childcare, or to soothe them when they’re feeling ill. It’s also a good opportunity for you to sit and relax for a few minutes, which – let’s face it – you’ll likely need once they start walking!
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You may become their favourite teether
Lots of new teeth coming through means that although feeding may be their best means of comfort, your nipple may also become their favourite teether. Ouch!
Everyone has an opinion
Breastfeeding beyond 12 months is incredibly rare here in the UK, so you may find that everyone has an opinion on why you’re continuing to do so or want to know when you’re going to stop. But never feel pressured to wean before you or your baby is ready. You’re doing an amazing job, and that should be celebrated, not criticised.